Saturday, June 28, 2008
Lake Pics
We just got home from a great time at the Lake.

We hiked, swam, boated, skied, tubed, played and had an all around fun time.  Here are a few pics to give a taste.










(The old-timers had to show the young-uns how it's done)

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Wednesday, June 25, 2008
Another Sign of the Times

Listen closely and you'll hear the bellowing of the founding fathers from the grave.

In yet another sign of how bankrupt this generation has become, the news yesterday reported a choice morsel.

Our Congress and Senate are poised to pass a $200 Billion Mortgage Aid bill that will make available cheaper home loans to an estimated 400,000 borrowers who are considered "too risky" to qualify for normal loans.  

Congressional leaders are debating on how high to place the loan limits.  What's your guess on the per-person limit these struggling homeowners will be allowed to be helped by us tax-payers?   The Senate says the limit should be $625,000 and the Congress says it should be $730,000.

Mike Enzi, R-Wyo, is the only voice of reason that I've heard: "They expect the federal government to turn their backs on responsible lenders and borrowers and renters waiting - waiting - to become first-time homeowners, and support those groups that have pushed our housing market into decline with bad loans and bad investments."

Could it be these 400,000 borrowers aren't ready for home ownership?  Could they start in an apartment, like the rest of us, until their finances are in order?  And then, maybe, just maybe, could they consider starting in a home they can really afford?  What's next? Government-backed million dollar home loans for new college grads?

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Monday, June 23, 2008
And they said Rock-n-Roll was dead....

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Forza Azzuri !!

It's deja vu for the boys in blue.

It was the year 2000 and Kristin and I had become big-time Italian soccer fans. We joined all our Italian friends in deciding that the best league in the world was the summertime UEFA Cup. This was the league where all European players would return home to their various mother countries and represent their national team against other European countries.  It evoked as much national pride as the olympics.  It was incredible.

So in this particular year, the Italians had made it to the championship game against the French. We were with our good friends Jay and Teanna Sunberg in Sofia, Bulgaria, at the time. The Sunbergs also happened to be hosting a youth group from Scotland who had come to Bulgaria to help with some church projects.  

In their apartment, Kristin and I found ourselves the ONLY Italian fans out of the 20+ people who gathered for the game.  We all crammed around their TV set that evening for the exciting game.  We "rubbed it in" as much as possible for what we were certain was going to be an Italian win.

Well as it goes, the regulation time ended in a 1-1 tie.  They go on to play an overtime period and France squeaks a shot past our goalie for the 2-1 victory. I've never heard Scottish people yell so loud.  It was terrible.  When we arrived home in Italy, all the papers recounted the game and ended with same conclusion:  another predictable flop for the favored Italian squad.

So if any of you happened to find yourselves scrolling through the TV yesterday, you may have seen the same game play out again.  The favored Italians cruised through 90% of the UEFA semi-finals game - giving what appeared to be a half-hearted effort, at best -  when they finally decided to turn it on.  And by that time, it was too late.  

The game ended in a tie.  The two overtime periods ended in a tie.  And the Spanish won on free kicks.

You know what they say, the more things change, the more they stay the same.  Well, at least until next year, when we'll be charmed into thinking that "THIS" is our championship season. See you then!  Dai Azzuri!



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Saturday, June 21, 2008
The Remnant

"In that day, the Lord Almighty will be a glorious crown,
a beautiful wreath for the remnant of his people."
- Isaiah 28:5

London's popular newspaper, The Telegraph, reported yesterday the results of a national poll.

According to a YOUGOV poll, more than half of Britons think Christianity likely will disappear from the country within a century. Although 4 out of 10 people said that they would choose to be Christians, an almost equal number of respondents said they would rather practice no religion at all.

Interestingly, Buddhism proved more attractive than both Islam and Judaism, and was chosen by nine-percent of those surveyed as their religion of choice.

Research published earlier in the year showed that church attendance is declining at a rate where regular church goers will be fewer than those attending mosques within a generation.

In an age that believes "being culturally relevant" is more important than believing the Bible, many could stand to re-read John Bunyan's classic, Pilgrim's Progress:
As I was walking through the wilderness of this world, I came to a place where there was a cave. I laid down in that place to sleep, and as I slept I had a dream in which I saw a man dressed in rags standing in a certain place and facing away from his own house... As I looked, I saw him open the Book and read out of it, and as he read he wept and trembled. Unable to contain himself any longer, he broke out with a sorrowful cry, saying, "What shall I do?"

He went home in this state of mind but restrained himself as long as he could so his wife and children would not notice his distress. Yet he could not be silent long, because his troubled feeling was getting worse. He finally revealed to his wife and children what was going on in his mind, saying, "Oh, my dear wife and children, I'm suffering from inner turmoil because of a burden that lays heavily upon me."

"And, what's worse, I've been reliably informed that our city will be burned with fire from Heaven. In that fearful disaster, I with you my wife and you my sweet children will come to a miserable ruin unless some way of escape may be found which we may be delivered."
The Telegraph





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Thursday, June 19, 2008
Attention Class of 1986

Any of you old-timers out there getting ready to turn 40 this year?  

As my reckoning day approaches, I was reminded today that I'm joining an elite group of celebrities who also will share this monumental birthday this year:
Will Smith 
Mollie Ringwald 
Gary Coleman 
Mary Lou Retton
Cuba Gooding, Jr.
Celine Dion
Rachel Ray 
Kenny Chesney 
Gillian Anderson 
Owen Wilson 
Heather Mills 
Robbie Van Winkle (aka Vanilla Ice)
Anthony Michael Hall 
LL Cool J 
Ashley Judd
Lucy Liu
Lisa Marie Presley 
Pauly Shore 



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Wednesday, June 18, 2008
New Arrivals!

After the best dog that either of us ever had passed away, we were slow in getting excited about getting another one.  Well, we quietly have been doing our research and put a deposit on a female yellow lab a few weeks ago.

Last night, our new puppy's mom, Mia, welcomed her into the world.  

We're expecting to bring her home sometime in August.  Needless to say, everyone around here is pumped. 

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Tuesday, June 17, 2008
Law & Gospel


John R. de Witt wrote a great booklet titled, What is the Reformed Faith?  In it, de Witt summarized the distinguishing traits of what it meant to follow Christ in the Reformed tradition.

One chapter talked about the distinction between gospel and law.  This excerpt from his chapter does a good job of explaining how our living matters in light of the gospel:
The reformed faith has also been characterized by a clear understanding of the distinction between, and relationship of, law and gospel.  One of the striking differences within historic Protestantism is to be found here... Though Luther and Calvin were formally of one mind in their understanding of the three-fold use of the law, yet Luther's stress was on the first use of the law while Calvin's was on the third, the so-called 'practical use.'

The law is our paedagogue to Christ as the New Testament plainly teaches us; but it is more than that; it is also our blessed and holy guide to the life of obedience and faith.  Here the instruction of the Apostle Paul is paradigmatic for the New Testament as a whole (Rom 8:3,4).  The law is not the gospel: it is not a means of life or a means to life.  But we also go on to declare that the gospel is likewise not law-less; it is a way of life, the way of life for God's people.  If the holy law of God is indeed a reflection of the holiness of God himself, then the Christian, too, though free from the law as a means of life, continues in a  relationship of joyful obedience to the law which God in his free mercy has given. 

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Yankees Rotation Worsens

The bad news continues to worsen for the Yankee pitching rotation.

The Yankee's ace pitcher, Chien Ming-Wang, sprained his ankle in Sundays blowout against Houston. After a medical examination on Monday, a team spokesman said Wang will be out a minimum of six weeks.  Some sports analysts familiar with his injury said they believe Sunday was his last game of this season.

Having won 19-games last year, Wang was on his way to another stellar season, having already earned an 8-2 record at the time of his injury.  He clearly was the anchor to the struggling Yankee bullpen.

With Wang's injury, he now joins other injured Yankee pitchers Pavano, Hughes and Kennedy on the injured reserve list. 

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Monday, June 16, 2008
Is Watts Supporting Obama?

WorldNetDaily wrote an excellent piece today about several prominent black Republican leaders who are cautioning their constituents not to assume they are voting for McCain in the upcoming election.

Among the most highlighted in the story? Oklahoma's own J.C. Watts.

The thought that the former member of the  Republican congressional leadership might actually consider voting for Barack Obama came up over the weekend when the Associated Press reported just that in a story pointing out conservative pundit Armstrong Williams and former Secretary of State Colin Powell were thinking about it - and had good things to say about the Democratic nominee.

Is Watts serious about Obama?

"Well, no, I didn't say that," he told Sean Hannity on his national radio show today.  "What I said in the article was that I was a free agent.  No one should assume that J.C. Watts should vote one way."

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Shepherding Tip

Read this great page in Tedd Tripp's book about parenting, Shepherding a Child's Heart:

Discipline exposes your child's inability to love his sister from his heart, or genuinely to prefer others before himself.  Discipline leads to the cross of Christ where sinful people are forgiven.

The alternative is to reduce the standard to what may be fairly expected of your children without the grace of God.  The alternative is to give them a law they can keep.  The alternative is a lesser standard that does not require grace and does not cast them on Christ, but rather on their own resources.

Many parents get confused at this point.  They realize their children are unable to love others from the heart without salvation and new birth.  So they conclude that, since it is not possible, the standard must be lowered.  They set a standard that is in keeping with their children's resources.

Dependence on their own resources moves them away from the cross.  It moves them away from any self-assessment that would force them to conclude that they desperately need Jesus' forgiveness and power.

I have spoken to many parents who feared they were producing little hypocrites who were proud and self-righteous.  Hypocrisy and self-righteousness is the result of giving children a keepable law and telling them to be good. To the extent they are successful, they become like the Pharisees, people whose exterior is clean, while inside they are full of dirt and filth.  The genius of Phariseeism was that it reduced the law to a keepable standard of externals that any self-disciplined person could do.  In their pride and self-righteousness, they rejected Christ.

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Saturday, June 14, 2008
Fathers Day
Our Fathers Day celebration is now in count-down mode around here.

What a great treat to be the dad of our two great kids.  There's never a dull moment around here. Just this morning, Nicholas told me that he was licking up water off the shower floor right alongside our cat Chloe.  And yesterday, Maddox ran into to our room early in the morning and as she was jumping in the air onto my back, she yelled "let's play sandwich - I'm lettuce!" 

Being a dad is a great honor and carries a great responsibility.  

I had a couple of fathers day thoughts I wanted to pass along.   They stem from a comment a friend of ours made while eating at McCalister's Deli this week.  Out of the blue he asked, "how much of life do you think is marketing?"  Then he added, "because there are signs everywhere about McCalister's famous tea (which there was) and personally, I think the tea is just okay."  

Do you ever notice how marketing tells us what to think?  And have you ever realized how our culture sometimes buys into these thoughts - whether they are right or wrong?

Well this week, I ran into several examples where companies are trying to convince our society that Fathers are not the men that God created them to be (leaders of our homes and God's representative between our families and Himself).  Instead, companies are trying to shape us to view fathers as dumbed-down idiots somewhere between Homer Simpson and Larry the Cable Guy.

Example #1:
I go to the card store to pick out a card for my dad for Fathers Day and leave having bought a generic "nothing written in it" card.  The reason?  Every Fathers Day card I found at the store made dads look like morons.  By the text on the cards, you'd think all dads' first loves were golf, fishing, work, or the remote. And all of the cards made dads to look like a doofus in each of these categories.

Example #2:
Kristin gave the kids a special treat yesterday and let them watch a vintage episode of Tom and Jerry on TV.  The first commercial that came on (this was the Cartoon Network) had kids playing with toys when their dad joined in their make-believe world, making sound effects and playing along. His kids all rolled their eyes at him, made fun of him and the dad was standing there looking like a nincompoop.  The second commercial followed suit and the channel was changed.  Not the example of Fathers we want around here.

Last Example:
We grab a quick lunch at McDonald's  while out running errands (again, a special treat for the kids).  On all of our cups were pictures of future olympians and a saying to go by their picture.  We all had the same athlete on our cup and here is what the caption said (paraphrased):

"With the wind behind my back... my dreams in front of me... and my mom's years of encouragement... There's nothing that can stop me."

Touching, but where is dad?  Is it just understood that dads are not in the picture?  Are we a bunch of dummies that just play golf, fish and go to work?  Do we not train our kids and do they not honor us as their leaders and representatives to God?

Well this Fathers Day, I want to send a big Hat Tip to several friends who are all great dads. These guys are leading their families in the ways of the Lord.  They are catechizing their children.  They are hard workers, but spending most of their energy to the benefit of their families.

They're certainly not incompetent.  They're not lazy.  And they're not self-centered.  These guys are working to live up to their calling articulated by God himself in Deuteronomy 6.  They would all tell you that they struggle with sin, but in midst of their struggles, they appear to be working toward becoming the dads their families need them to be. 

I'm not sure how it would sell, but I'd love to see something like that on a Hallmark card or a McDonald's cup!

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Thursday, June 12, 2008
And.... It's..... Gone!!!!!

It's the last game of the season for t-ball and our Royals are playing the Pirates.

The Pirates are the most stacked t-ball team of 5- & 6-year olds we've ever seen.  I think they have six or seven guys who can hit it over the fence.  They can throw. They can field.  They wear the custom baseball uniforms.  And if that's not enough, I think they have six or seven coaches and the bleachers are packed with their very demonstrative fans.

So back to the game... An epic story of good vs. evil.  David v. Goliath.  And our Royals are hanging unbelievably with these toughs.  The Pirates have already hit five or six home runs when the second inning is over and it's our turn at bat.

First up in the final inning is Nicholas.  He does his customary raising of the tee to the height of his belt, he squeezes the bat really tight with both hands, steps to the plate and blasts a shot that soars at least five feet over the right field fence.

His first home run, and what a night to hit it!

The final score was Pirates 21, Royals 20.  But without a doubt, we left the winners.



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Glenn Beck said...
...what I was trying to say about the housing crises, but only better.

Read it here.

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Wednesday, June 11, 2008
The Quest Continues

Last night, Nicholas' quest for his first homerun fell 2 feet short on two different occasions. Both balls hit high up on the fence, but neither went over.

Thursday's game is our last chance of the season.

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Proverbs 1:8

A month or two ago, Kristin and I ran into a friend of ours who teaches at a very respected preschool here in Oklahoma City.  She had just finished her school year and she was telling us how things went.  The conversation took an unusual direction - which she brought up on her own.

She told us that at the end of the year, they sent a survey to parents asking what their children benefited from and what they didn't, and asked if there were any recommendations that the preschool should consider for the next year.

Thinking they would receive comments like, "could you have more singing," or "have you considered a pet-day;" she was surprised to learn that the overwhelming majority of parents responded by asking if the school would consider lengthening their program to 5 days a week (from 3) - and if they could add mothers-day-out every day to supplement their half-day preschool program.

The age for this preschool program?  3 and 4 year olds.

There are so many things about this that are concerning and I would like to ask you dads who are reading this to consider the material below, if you are in this boat.

At the time Nicholas was born, we were going to church with the Director of DHS in Oklahoma. We asked him if he had run across any interesting material on child development that we should read before becoming new parents.  

Without pause, he recommended the book, Right From The Start.  This book gave a statistical look at the long-term health of children who spent the first five years of their lives in the environment of a stable home.  The results were overwhelmingly in favor of the child whose family purposefully spent time with their young children, and the book convinced us that the factors influencing the first five years of our kids' lives were critical toward their long-term health: mental, emotional, physical and spiritual.

Bryce Christensen, who works for the Oklahoma Council of Public Affairs, wrote an excellent piece in which he reported that Oklahoma ranks #1 in the country in the percentage of four-year-olds enrolled in pre-school (60%).  Definitely an accomplishment we should be proud of, but his article cautions what I believe I am cautioning, that turning over too much of raising our children, goes against their best long-term interest.

Preschool? Absolutely and definitely a good thing.  Five-day-a-week preschool?  Seems like a lot for a three and four year old.  Five-day-a-week preschool plus mothers-day-out every day? You have a hard time convincing me it's in my child's best interest.

Why?  Christensen cited a few examples in his article:
Without doubt, teachers who work for Oklahoma's early-education programs can do much to help young children to prepare for school by helping them learn colors, numbers, letters, shapes, and simple logic.  But their best efforts typically fall short of a loving at-home parent, usually the mother.  Why?

In the first place, in even the best-run state program, children experience some staff turnover, inevitably disorienting and disruptive to learning, as children try to familiarize themselves with the personality of a new teacher... An at-home mother is a reassuringly permanent teacher, the most familiar and constant presence in the child's life.

Second, though good early-education teachers try to make some adjustments to accommodate children's personalities and temperaments, their curriculum is more or less set for them and the groups of children are too large to fully individualize instruction.  In contrast, an at-home mother usually knows her child's needs and characteristics better than any other adult..."
When talking to a friend about this issue, he simply stated, "No one loves your child like you do; and no one knows their sin like you do."  As parents we have a vested interest in the character traits our children are showing (first-time obedience, truth-telling, loving our neighbors as our selves, etc.); so much more so than a teacher who is responsible for overseeing 20 children.

Tedd Tripp reminds us in his book, Shepherding A Child's Heart, that out of the heart, the mouth speaks. And if our goal as Christian parents is to raise children who "Glorify God and Enjoy Him Forever (catechism question#1)," then we certainly can reason that this can only be accomplished by spending significant time with our 3- and 4-year olds.

At least it's something to consider.
 
 

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Monday, June 9, 2008
The 50 Billion Dollar Bye
Today, our newly elected democratic candidate was in the news touting his new economic stimulus idea.  

The course to correct our woes?  Give away more money.

NPR reported that Obama is pushing for another 50 BILLION (with a B) to be given away in rebate checks to those most affected by the housing bust.  This is in addition to the $170 Billion from the first stimulus package.

Obama said the money should go to those who are feeling the most pressure from the housing crisis. 

Now bear with me and don't accuse me of being heartless and out-of-touch.  I think I'm going to say what most people are thinking:  Could it be that certain Americans are in a housing crisis simply because they bought more home than they could afford?  And if so, is that the problem of American tax-payers?

To quote Ed McMahon in an interview regarding his $6 Million  home that is in foreclosure: "If you spend more money than you make, you know what happens."

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Sunday, June 8, 2008
Submit to me? Ouch!
The past few weeks, I've been visiting with different friends about the topic of subordination within the hierarchy of the Kingdom of God.  Not one of those topics you hear a lot about on sports radio, granted.  But definitely something I've been wrestling with.

How far and to whom does God call you to be subordinate (or submissive)? And are there qualifiers regarding their level of competence, before you submit to their authority?

Does God call you to be submissive to your parents - even when you're a grown up?  Your elders at church?  Your boss?  Your in-laws?  What about difficult people who have authority over you?  And what if any of these people are fools (Proverbs 13:20)?  To them too?

Bruce Waltke addresses this topic in his study, "The Book of Proverbs."  Waltke takes an in- depth look at parents' responsibility (particularly fathers) to admonish and teach their children the ways of the wise.  He also instructs children to listen, and to live out, the wisdom their parents are instructing.

One of the things he talks about regarding this subject is God's hierarchy of authority. In particular, how parents stand in authority as God's representatives in the lives of their children.  He goes on to give a scriptural backdrop as to how structure in the kingdom is to be:
In the new Israel, Jesus Christ subordinates himself to God the Father (1 Cor. 11:3); the elders and the church to the apostles - who liken themselves to fathers - by the command of God the Father and of the Son (1 Cor. 4:15, 1 Tim. 1:2, Tit. 1:4, 1 John 5:21); the parents and the church at large to the leaders (Eph. 6:2, Heb. 13:17); the wife to her husband (1 Cor. 11:3, Eph 5:22-24, Col. 3:18, 1 Tim. 2:11-12); and the children to both parents (Eph. 6:1, Col. 3:20, 1 Tim. 5:4).
Did you follow the structure?  Can you see it on the chart in your head?

Jesus to God.
Elders to Apostles.
Church at Large to the Leaders of the Church.
Wife to Husband.
Children to Parents.

As I study the proverbs, I find myself wearing two hats.  First, I wear the hat as a father who is responsible for teaching my children to honor and submit to Kristin and me.  And secondly, I read them as a son who is responsible to submit to my parents, our church leaders and all other authorities – as God ordained for my life.

So what do you do when someone whom God has placed in authority over you (in the hierarchy listed above) makes it difficult to follow?  What if you believe your ways are better thought- through than their ways?  Do you still submit?

Luther had a great example in his larger catechism as he discussed our Lord's commandment to honor your father and mother. He writes:
We must, therefore impress it upon the young that they should regard their parents as in God's stead, and remember that however lowly, poor, frail, and queer they may be, nevertheless they are father and mother given them by God.  They are not to be deprived of their honor because of their conduct or their failings.  Therefore we are not to regard their persons, how they may be, but the will of God who has thus created and ordained.  In other respects we are indeed, all alike in the eyes of God; but among us there must necessarily be such inequality and ordered difference, and therefore God commands it to be observed, that you obey me as your father, and that I have the supremacy.
So as difficult as it may be, I find myself believing more and more that God calls me to be subordinate to everyone He has placed in authority over me.  And perhaps, for my sanctification, especially those who make it difficult.  For as Luther states, it's not in conduct that our parents are to be honored, but out of the will that God has ordained that they should be our parents!

And now I find myself wrestling more and more, not to whom I should or shouldn't submit.  But I think of my own conduct, in the lives of my wife and children, and I pray that God helps me become a man that makes it easier for them to submit to, and to follow, instead of making it more difficult.

The thought that I stand in God's stead in their lives frightens and humbles me.  And to think that God expects them to submit to me – in all my decisions, in my leadings (regardless of my mis-leadings) – out of duty and honor to Him, is sobering.  
 

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Friday, June 6, 2008
Who Will Be Next???

Not exactly sure why I find this so interesting, but evidently the rash of foreclosures hitting the country is not exclusive to us ordinary folks.

Today it was reported that Evander Holyfield's $10 Million mansion is to be auctioned by a bank on July 1.  Pretty remarkable considering that during his boxing career, he earned over $245 Million in winnings alone.

He now joins the growing list of celebrities who have recently found their mansions in foreclosure:
June 23, 2007:  Marion Jones, Chapel Hill, NC.
Feb. 26, 2008:  Michael Jackson, Santa Barbara County (averted?)
May 1, 2008:  Jose Canseco, Encino, CA.
July 1, 2008:  Evander Holyfield, Fayette County, GA
Ed McMahon, Beverly Hills, CA

There has to be a wisdom lesson in all of this somewhere.

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Thursday, June 5, 2008
Why Doctrine Matters
So this morning we're sitting in Panera eating cinnamon rolls - a tradition we've always done after our kids' doctor appointments - when this guy who looks familiar walks by our booth.  He stops, comes back to our booth and says, "You look really familiar, do we know each other?"

We figure out that we used to go to church together.  After catching us up on his family, he proceeds to tell us about a prison ministry in which he's involved.

And the dilemma begins...

We told him about a friend of ours who also was involved in ministering to prisoners (thinking they might know each other).  This led to a story about how our friend recently was scratched from the list of approved ministers at a prison because of what he was preaching.

Supposedly, one Sunday our friend preached from a scripture in Isaiah that says, "all our righteous acts are but filthy rags (Isaiah 64:6)."  He told the prisoners that like himself, we're all sinners with the inability to ever do enough to earn God's approval and make ourselves "right" before God.  He emphasized that the Bible says it's our righteous acts that are viewed as filthy rags, much less our filthy acts.

He told them that if any of us were to have any hope of being declared right before God, that we could accomplish this only through the imputed righteousness that is available through faith in Christ alone.  A true gift.  Righteousness accomplished not through anything we do, but solely through what Christ did on our behalf on the cross.

Sounds pretty straight-forward, doesn't it?

I finished the story by telling him that after our friend preached this message, he was asked by the prison chaplain not to come back.  The chaplain told him that prisoners didn't need to be reminded of their sin, but instead, needed to be esteemed, loved and encouraged to turn over a new leaf.

So after telling the guy at Panera this story, his only response was this:  "Yeah, you've got to leave all that denominational stuff at the door.  I tell people all the time, you've got to just stick to preaching the gospel because when we all stand before God, all that's going to matter is what you did with your life (emphasis added)."

And I realize, what "the gospel" is to some, isn't the same as what "the gospel" is to others.

Michael Horton has a great quote for this kind of  "pull yourself up by your bootstraps" theology:  "You can turn over a new leaf and still be dead in trespasses and sin."

And that's why doctrine matters.
 

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Tuesday, June 3, 2008
Basics Instinct
A good friend of ours once told a story about a football camp for quarterbacks that Dan Marino used to hold.  As I recall, the camp was for highly-touted college quarterbacks who wanted to hone their skills prior to entering the NFL.

The story went that once at the camp, these young recruits would arrive excited to learn all kinds of cutting edge techniques from the former NFL MVP.  They anticipated in-depth talks about how to read coverage, how to run a balanced offense and most-importantly, how to become an MVP quarterback.

Most were disappointed when they learned that all that Marino would focus on for the week were four things:  the snap, three step drop, plant the foot and throw.  For one-week, that's all these college football players did: snap, drop, plant and throw.  Marino convinced them if they mastered the basics, they would succeed.

So fast forward to June 3, 2008.... 

I just listened to another great podcast on The Whitehorse Inn that talked about this same principle, but instead of talking about football, they talked about the church. They discussed how the 21st century church no longer does the basics, but now chases the "modernist, consumer-driven, self-made man, prosperity-gospel" culture we live in.  The title of the podcast was "Selling Jesus" and you can probably find it in the archives of their site by clicking here.  

Horton said the role of the church has always been characterized by preaching the gospel, administering the sacraments (baptism and communion), prayer and church discipline.  That's it.  No business strategies.  No culturally-relevant movie clips. No focus groups.  Just preaching the gospel, administering the sacraments, prayer and church discipline.  The key ingredients to the historical church.

The podcast reminded me of one of the historical creeds, The Belgic Confession.  De Bris wrote the confession in the mid 1500's and it was adopted as one of the doctrinal standards to which all officers in the Reformed church had to subscribe.  Within the Belgic Confession, there is an article titled: The Marks of the True Church:

We believe that we ought to discern diligently and very carefully, by the Word of God, what is the true church-- for all sects in the world today claim for themselves the name of "the church."

We are not speaking here of the company of hypocrites who are mixed among the good in the church and who nonetheless are not part of it, even though they are physically there.  But we are speaking of distinguishing the body and fellowship of the true church from all sects that call themselves "the church."

The true church can be recognized if it has the following marks:  The church engages in the pure preaching of the gospel; it makes use of the pure administration of the sacraments as Christ instituted them; it practices church discipline for correcting faults.  In Short, it governs itself according to the pure Word of God, rejecting all things contrary to it and holding Jesus Christ as the only Head.  By these marks one can be assured of recognizing the true church-- and no one ought to be separated from it.

As for those who can belong to the church, we can recognize them by the distinguishing marks of Christians; namely by faith, and by their fleeing from sin and pursuing righteousness, once they have received the one and only Savior, Jesus Christ.  They love the true God and their neighbors, without turning to the right or left, and they crucify the flesh and its works.

Though great weakness remains in them, they fight against it by the Spirit all the days of their lives, appealing constantly to the blood, suffering, death, and obedience of the Lord Jesus, in whom they have forgiveness of their sins, through faith in him.

As for the false church, it assigns more authority to itself and its ordinances than to the Word of God; it does not want to subject itself to the yoke of Christ; it does not administer the sacraments as Christ commanded in his Word; it rather adds to them or subtracts from them as it pleases; it bases itself on men, more than on Jesus Christ; it persecutes those who live holy lives according to the Word of God and who rebuke it for its faults, greed, and idolatry.

These two churches are easy to recognize and thus to distinguish from each other.
Snap, drop, plant, throw.  Gospel, sacraments, prayer, discipline.






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Sunday, June 1, 2008
Mixed Blessings



"My soul finds rest in God alone; my salvation comes from him. He alone is my rock and my salvation; he is my fortress, I will never be shaken."
Psalm 62:1-2

The picture above is of our precious Maddox, at about 3 weeks of age. She was being rolled from the NICU, where she had been since birth, to Radiology for a CT scan of her sweet little head.

Saturday was one of those days of mixed blessings. You know the kind where you're forced to revisit a time in your life that you wished didn't happen... only to be reminded - once again - of how God had saved you from a desperate situation and how far He's brought you since.

Our daughter, Maddox, is a ray of sunshine. She's full of life, she's got a great sense of humor and she brightens whatever room she's in. It's easy to forget that when she was born, she had a Grade 3 (out of a possible 4) brain hemorrhage, and due to the hemorrhage, she developed Hydrocephalus, and due to the Hydrocephalus, she had to have a permanent shunt placed, and due to the shunt, she requires a life-time of care that goes with it.

We spent the first month of her life in the NICU and our days were filled with talking to Neurosurgeons and Neurologists about the long-term effects of her condition. We were told that there was a good chance she would develop Cerebral Palsy, that she most likely would experience several kinds of developmental delays, and that we certainly should count on numerous trips to the E.R. throughout the year from complications that are common with shunts.

Saturday, at age 3 1/2, was visit number one.

On Thursday, we noticed a lump on Maddox' neck in the vicinity of her shunt line (the tubing that runs under her skin that connects the device in her brain down through her torso and ends in her abdomen). After watching it for a couple of days, we decided we should probably get it looked at and took her to her doctor for her opinion. This facilitated a transfer to Children's Hospital, two CT scans, one x-ray, some blood work, a consult with a radiologist and a visit from a pediatric neurosurgeon.

Everything ended up fine. But we once again felt the same sense of unease that we felt three-and-a-half years ago. Hoping for good news, but not sure what the test results would show. That's the "mixed" part of the "mixed blessing."

The "blessing" part came from the numerous comments we heard that reminded us how unbelievably fortunate we've been that Saturday was our first trip to Children's since her birth.

One of our doctors said she couldn't believe that Maddox had a grade 3 bleed because she just looked so good. Our CT scan tech was in shock when we told her that Saturday was our first scan since she was one-month old, and most of her care-givers made some kind of comment about how healthy she was.

It was just one of those days where on one hand, we hated to be back in that all-too-dreaded of situations; but on the other hand, it was a great reminder of how far God's brought us.

We're certain we'll have more nervous days like Saturday, but as one of our pastors taught us, "God is perpetually out for our good; and deliverance from sin is a far greater blessing than deliverance from affliction."

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